As we gather this weekend to celebrate the Feast of the Holy Family, we are reminded of the gift of love and joy that God bestows upon us in our families. The Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph stands as a model of selfless love, deep faith, and mutual care, inviting us to reflect on how we can embody these virtues in our own families.
In The Book of Joy, the Dalai Lama and Archbishop Desmond Tutu remind us that gratitude, compassion, and generosity are essential for a life filled with joy and meaning. They write, “Gratitude helps us to see what is there instead of what isn’t. Compassion is the impulse to help others that comes from recognizing our shared humanity. Generosity opens our hearts and allows love to flow freely.” These virtues are not just lofty ideals but practical ways to strengthen the bonds of family life.
To live with love and joy in our families, we can make small, intentional choices each day. Express gratitude for one another, especially for the unseen sacrifices and quiet acts of kindness. Practice compassion by being present to each other’s struggles and offering a listening ear. And nurture generosity by giving freely of your time, attention, and affection. In these ways, we create a home where love can flourish.
This weekend, we extend a special invitation to all families to join us in honoring the gift of family. Together, we will celebrate the joy of being a part of God’s family and ask for His blessing on our homes as we enter a new year. This weekend, we will bless all families and offer a special blessing for those who have celebrated the baptism of a child in 2024.
As we look ahead to 2025, I encourage each of you not to make a New Year’s resolution but rather begin one small, loving habit that can transform your life and relationships. We learn from BJ Fogg, the bestselling author of book Tiny Habits, that we can start with a small habit in our effort to make changes in our lives. Perhaps it is taking a moment each day to express appreciation to a loved one, spending more time together as a family, or reaching out to mend a strained relationship. Whatever it is, take just one tiny step towards a life of gratitude, compassion and generosity.
As I reflect on 2024 and the love I have received from family, friends and community, I am reminded of the words of St. John of the Cross: “In the evening of life, we will not be judged on how well we have lived but on how well we have loved.” Let us strive to live in such a way that our love radiates to all those around us. Love one person a little more each day and be ready to accept love from someone. Thank you for the love and support you show to me and our community at St. Simon.
May the coming year be filled with God’s abundant blessings for you and your family. Happy New Year!
God bless,
Fr. Brendan